Monday, Monday, So Good to Me

So for a Monday, today has been going pretty well. (Why does Monday always have that stigma? Poor Monday...) After waiting a MONTH with a whole lot of complications with my order, my new work bench FINALLY arrived! Yay! You should have seen me trying to drag this thing in the house from the front porch. I suppose if you weren't me it might have been comical to watch me struggle and heave on a huge box that nearly weighed as much as I do. I was a little miffed that the UPS guy just dumped it, rang the bell, and ran. I'm sure he had one of those little trolly things to get it to my door which would have been super handy had he hung around for 5 more seconds till I got to the door. But alas, I got it inside. Had to do some pretty fancy manhandling to get it out of the box too. Loki (more commonly known as the puppymonster) was very confused/enraptured by this whole episode. Anyhoo, got it built all by my little self (I feel handy!) and then drug it into my office. It looks lovely laden with all my tools and paraphernalia.

As soon as I got everything set up, I just couldn't stand it- I had to try it out! I had a pendant laying around barely started because I got frustrated trying to work on it without a stable workspace. Problem solved. With the new bench and bench pin, sawing was a breeze. I was a sawing FIEND! Then when I'd gotten all the bits cut out, I broke out the hammer for the texture. (Hammer time!) It's sooo nice to have a proper bench to work on again. Not sure yet just what I'm going to do with this pendant now that its finished. I will just have to wait until it speaks to me. Lol. But really, that's kind of how it works. Sometimes things just click right and it looks great. Some days there's not a darn thing that comes out right. Kind of a coin flip I guess. :)

And now, simply because its stuck in my head, I have decreed so shall it be in yours. Hah!

  

xo

Lindsey :)

Celebration time

 

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Hey guys, I've got something to celebrate! (Other than how awesome giraffes are, of course) This month is the first time in the year since I started my shop that I've managed to hit (and exceed!!!) my monthly profit goal! Granted, my goal wasn't huge or anything. But its still a milestone worth celebrating and I'm super excited about this. I was, honestly, starting to wonder whether I should just give up and go find a job somewhere. Every time I jump on that train of thought though, it seems like there's always something that says "Hey! Get off that train!". I've read countless accounts of people whose businesses took years to turn any kind of profit. I just have to keep reminding myself that I'm still new at this game and to hang on. So I'd really like to say thanks to all the people that made this month possible and for all the encouragement in general. You guys are awesome. :)

View on my morning run

 

One thing I've found I do like about Oklahoma: Summer = Sunflowers. I do love me some sunflowers.  And yes, I stopped running so I could take pictures. Good thing I run with my iphone :)

DIY Earring Display Stands from Coat Hangers

There are a lot of beautiful jewelry display stands on the market, but a lot of them can be quite pricey. Not exactly rolling in the dough myself, I decided to try and make my own! Like me, you'll probably have most of what you need lying around the house already. The only things I purchased to make these were the wooden wheels for bases and the spray paint. That's it. Less than $10 and so far I've made 4 stands with supplies to spare!

What you'll need:

-Wire coat hanger

-Small wooden wheels with pre-drilled holes (pictured below-I found mine in the wood section at Hobby Lobby)

-Wire cutters

-Pliers

-Hot glue gun

-Spray paint

 

 Now how do we go from this to a fun and functional earring stand? I shall show you!

I apologize in advance because I got a little excited and didn't start photographing till a couple steps in. The first few are pretty self explanatory though, so here we go:

1) Use your wire cutters to cut off the actual hanging bendy part at the top of the hanger. If your hanger is like mine you'll already have two pieces of wire left (the wire doesn't go all the way through the cardboard bit on mine). Otherwise, employ your wire cutters again and cut down the wire to the desired length. (For a full wire hanger, cutting it in half will make the larger stands shown in the last picture)

2) Use your pliers to straighten out the wire. I used a pair of blunt, wider nosed pliers which made this step super easy but it should work with whatever pair you've got lying around. 

Now for pictures!

 

3)Use your pliers to bend the wire in half. Squeeze the bottom of the V together so that it will fit through the hole in your wooden wheel/base.

 4) Using the pliers again, begin to round and shape the arms of your stand. Bend a little at a time working from the tip of the wire towards the center. Don't try to get the shape all at once. It's a gradual transformation.

5) These are the little wheel things I was telling you about. They come in a little baggie of about a million for only $3.99. (And by a million, I mean somewhere around 20.) Now for the funnest (yes, I said funnest) part! Glue gun! Who doesn't love playing with hot glue? Seriously? If you don't (Blasphemer!), I hereby strip thee of the title Crafter! Anyhoo, moving on. Warm up your hot glue gun and squirt a glob down into the hole of your wheel. Before the glue sets, push center of your wire stand down through the hole. Some glue will probably just squirt out the bottom. I just wiped it off with my finger. So what if its hot? I'm just that awesome.

 6) You should now have something that looks a bit like this. Now you could leave it like that. I wanted mine to be extra snazzy though, so I spray painted them white. You know, for uniformity and all that jazz. Anyway, spray paint them, let them dry, aaaaaaaaaaand...

VOILA! You've made your very own earring display stands! Hang up some darn earrings already! 

Also, FYI (shameless plug in 3... 2... 1...) you can find all of the earrings pictured above in my shop which you can find here!

Did you have fun? I hope so! I know I did! :D

xo
Lindsey

Broken Bow Lake Trip

Trying out a new style. I've come across several blogs that I enjoy that feature tons of pictures. Sometimes ONLY pics, and I love getting a glimpse into people's every day lives. So. Here we go.

 Last week we took a trip down to a little town called Broken Bow to hang out with some friends. Above is one of my fav photos from the trip-My husband with our crazy fuzzy, Loki.(Both actually smiling and looking normal. lol) We decided to take the puppymonster with us and she did really great! We've never taken a longish car ride with her and she did much better than expected. It turned out to be a pretty good trip. There was river rafting, great bbq, bonfires, wine, and playtime at the lake with the pups. All in all, great time had by everyone. :)

Here are some more pics from the trip! Enjoy!

 (I've started playing around with instagram a lot lately. Love it!)

 (Love this one too. Far more typical. Both monsters making faces! Lol :) Also, yay for playing with my new camera!!! :D)

 XO

Lindsey :)

New camera + new blooms = new post!

So I got a new camera for my birthday. Super exciting. My old point and shoot finally died so my hubby got me a shiny new Cannon Rebel T3! Yay!!! Haven't used it for much so far except shooting some photos of my jewelry.

Today though, I noticed there were some new blooms on my day lillies out in the front yard (and some more buds as well!). This is a big deal. You must understand. I've been known to kill cacti. Cacti mind you. I don't even know how... So yeah, super awesome. So I decided that that was a perfect reason to pull out my camera and play around a bit. Above is the result. Zero editing, straight from the camera. I think for starters that's pretty good, don't you? :D

I'm hoping to make this a new start for this blog. I know I've restarted a bazillion times already... And I can't promise this wont turn out like the previous times. I always have trouble coming up with something to write about. But I really want to explore more with my camera and I have some personal exploring to do as well. So perhaps we can squeeze a couple posts out of this, yes?

Fingers crossed.

Brass Pendant- How I Did It!

Heya! So with all the new jewelry going up in my shop, I thought you might enjoy a little behind the scenes peek on how some of it is made! The following is a pendant that I made for myself and I'll show you how I did it!

 1- Starting with a flat brass sheet. I believe it was somewhere around 18-20 gauge.

 

 2- I used my super nifty circle cutter (my Christmas gift last year!) and a heavy brass hammer to cut the circle for the pendant out of the sheet. The cutter can cut circles of many different sizes. You secure the metal between the two steel plates with the corresponding hole size you'd like to cut. You then insert the die (the cylindrical piece in the first and third pictures that actually does the cutting) into the hole and pound the ever loving crap out of it till it cuts all the way through the metal!

 3- Sand and polish till shiny! (I shall spare you the tedium by only using one picture. But please note, this takes FOREVERRRRRRRR!!!) Basically you work your way down through increasingly smoother grits of sandpaper (I use about three different ones) and then polish and smooth further with steel wool.

 

 4- I pulled out my metal stamps and used an ink pad to stamp the desired phrase onto paper. ("Here comes the sun" from one of my favorite Beatles songs) Cut up, it helps me decide the placement of the stamps on my piece and to make sure everything will fit.

5- Once I had decided my placement, I drew a guide line down the right side of the circle. I used this to line up my stamps starting from right to left on each line. The stamping is done on a steel block (which is the shiny silver behind the brass). This gives you a nice strong base. Wood and other softer surfaces have too much give and bounce and would not produce a clean deep stamp. When the metal is pressed between the steel block and the steel stamp, it is compressed rather than pushed outward thus keeping your piece flat.

6- A bit more sanding and polishing to remove the sharpie line

 7- Deciding I wanted it textured, I used another hammer with rounded head to essentially beat the metal into submission :)

This is also done on a steel block (which you can now see the entirety of) for the same reason as above. 

8- This nifty little gadget is a metal hole punch. Each end has a different size punch you use the handles to screw down into and cut the metal. Similar concept to the hole cutter only using the pressure from the screw instead of the hammer. (Also, much tinier circles) This is what I used to add the hole in my pendant that it will hang from.

9- Voila! With the addition of a jump ring and a chain, the pendant is ready to wear!

Deployment Survival 101: Tips For Keeping Your Sanity

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So, guys, I've been having a rough few days. As some of you know, I'm currently dealing with our first deployment. (Super fun. NOT.) On top of that, and all the issues going on inside my head, there's a freaking tornado like every other day. (Imma help you out here with a little piece of advice: do NOT come to Oklahoma in the spring). Stress. Heaps and bushels. Not to good for your health. I currently feel like I've been hit with a Mack truck. Repeatedly. 

However, instead of focusing on all that, I've decided to share with you some of the ways I've learned about to help cope with the ever looming stress of a deployment. (Excited, aren't you?!)

1) SET UP METHODS OF COMMUNICATION
Before your loved one leaves, set up ways you can communicate. Gone are the days of waiting weeks for letters or phone calls. Skype, Google Chat, and iChat are a few wonderful options that let you actually SEE your loved one even when they're all the way around the world! And don't forget email. Sometimes you or your service member are busy, or your schedules just don't jive. But you can write an email any time of the day! It's always wonderful to wake up to a little note in your inbox :)

2)FIND SOME WAY TO MARK THE PASSAGE OF TIME
Before he even left, I made a count down calendar. I printed out each month, colored and decorated, and posted the whole series prominently on my kitchen wall so I cannot help but see it every day. I then scrounged through the house and came up with every picture I had of my husband and I and posted those all around the calendar. Armed with a X shaped stamp and a red stamp pad, every morning when I get up I cross off the day before. 
At first, I'll admit, it's a little depressing. When you've only got a few Xs and a whole lot of blank calendar it may look like forever. Pretty quickly though, it becomes routine. Each red X brings the satisfaction of knowing you survived another day. And hey, if you did it yesterday, today should be a piece of cake. (That's the theory anyway. That is what we tell ourselves). And now, I've got two whole months worth of little red Xs and that makes me feel pretty good. Cuz hey, if I did it last month, this month should be a piece of cake.

I've also made paper chains the first time he left for training. Same concept. Everyday you remove a link. The shorter the chain, the closer he is to coming home!

Point is, find a way to mark the passage of time. It helps. If you can SEE the time trickling away it doesn't feel so much like forever. Here are some other fun ways I've seen to count down the time:
-Get two jars. Fill one jar with marbles (or other small objects) for each day of the deployment. Every day, move a marble to the other jar.
-Fill a jar with candy or some other small treat, one for each day. Every day, treat yourself and watch the candy and the time disappear! (I've heard this one is especially popular with the kiddos ;) )
-Get or make a countdown perpetual calendar with blocks you turn to change the numbers. Or a chalkboard you can change the number on every day.

 (Etsy.com has so many WONDERFUL options if you don't want to make your own! Find these calendars at: LEFT HERE, RIGHT HERE)

3)STAY BUSY

I had a lot of people tell me this before the deployment started. "Yeah, right" I thought "of course I'll be busy! I have to be two people!" What I didn't realize at the time was that what was really meant was 'Stay busy... WITH THINGS YOU ENJOY.' If its all errands, work, kids and cleaning the house... it will feel like forever. You have to have fun! I know it feels really weird at first. How can you be having fun when your loved one is over there doing what they're doing??? But really, would they want you to sit around and mope, feeling guilty the whole time they're gone? Of course not. Use the time you have to do or catch up on things you wouldn't normally have time for. 

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Got a stack of books you just haven't gotten to? Read them. Is there a dish you love that your hubby hates? Learn to cook it. Do you have a beloved hobby that you just don't have time for? Pick it back up. Something new you always wanted to try or learn? Go do it. Planning for their homecoming can also help you stay focused on the positive. Plan a special meal or make signs. 

I once had a 'Seasoned Spouse' as they are called (ie: spouses with several years and deployments under their belts) tell me every time her husband left she went and found a new class to take. Currently, she told me, she was learning to play the trumpet. Purely because she could. And why not? Your life doesn't stop because your loved one is away. And it shouldn't.

4)SET GOALS

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Another great way I've found to keep myself occupied is to set goals for myself and work at achieving them before your loved one gets home. For example, at one point in my life I was 'a runner'. But the last few years I've felt like I just didn't have the time to dedicate to exercise. (Oh, the things we tell ourselves..) So what did I do when my husband left? I signed up for a 5k to motivate myself to get back in shape. I've been running for just over a month now and my race is this upcoming Saturday! 



I work from home on my own jewelry business so there was another place that goals could come into play. I've got monthly sales goals I'm working toward and before this deployment is over, I want to have 100 pieces in my shop! I had under 50 when the deployment started and now, two months in, I believe I'm up to 74! Another month or so should meet that goal!

I also had a lot of improvements and things I wanted to get done around the house. We moved here and bought our house about a year and a half ago now. I still had rooms that were undecorated and we hadn't even touched the landscaping. I am happy to report that I've got two rooms down and the front yard has never looked better!
 Perhaps another way to put this is to make what I've heard some spouses call a 'Deployment Bucket List'. Make a list of things you've always wanted to try, or things you want to catch up on. Remember to set attainable goals though. Climbing Mount Everest if you've never hiked a day in your life- probably one you should leave off.

So there you go. That's what I've learned so far. Do you have any tips? How do you survive deployment?

Many happy returns,
Lindsey

Confession Questions

As I'm writing this as I'm watching Julie & Julia. Have you guys seen this movie? If you haven't- you should. Love it. Its about a woman named Julie that attempts to cook her way through Julia Child's cookbook and blog about the process. Quite inspirational for the blogingly inclined. Yes, I just made up that word. Anyhoo. Great movie. And one of the reasons I wanted to start a blog in the first place. (And really, what woman wouldn't want to be like Meryl Streep?!)


So, I started blogging. If you blog it, they will come? Yeah, that doesn't really work. I blogged... but I think like 5 people read it. Ever. And yet, when I wrote about something very personal... suddenly people were reading. I mean, not a lot of people. No one is going to make a movie of my blog. But still, my 'Confessions of a Socially Awkward Military Spouse' post got more than twice the hits of any other post I've written. Which at this point still doesn't even top 120... But its a start.


 So what does this mean? Well, first off I want to thank you for reading. Thank you for taking time out of your day to listen to my ramble and take a peek into the mess inside my head. But why did you read it? I can only guess. Perhaps you just needed some entertainment or perhaps you actually felt a sort of kinship with the subject matter. Or maybe you were just bored. You tell me. Whatever the reason, I'm glad you came. Your warmth and support were absolutely wonderful and, I'm sad to say, unexpected. Its good to have a reminder every now and then that there really are nice people in the world. Sometimes I forget that. So, seriously, thanks.

To be honest though, I hope it was because you were actually interested...  And if anyone can/is willing to, I'd really like to hear the answers to the above question. I've been thinking about and trying to decide what this blog should be. I don't want it to just end up as a sad dictation of everyday tedium. That would be boring. And stupid. And no one wants to read boring stupid things. I want to write things that people WANT to read. Maybe even something that might help or inspire others.

So, why did you read it? (Assuming you did. If not, hey, go do that) Was it interesting? Did you enjoy it? And if you did, WHY???

And now I leave you with this. May there always be happy trees ahead. (That's some sort of Irish proverb or whatever right???)

Cheers,
Lindsey




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